Coupling in Campus

 A relationship happen between two parties of which mostly its

between man and women. This happens

because everyone needs someone to love

and fall in love with. This feeling is complicated

to be explained by just using words.

The funniest bit of it; it happens naturally and cannot be

forced. However, today,coupling has become

an issue because it is always been related

to social problem.

Actually, coupling is

something that we might not be blamed of

because it is very subjective and we cannot

define it as a problem. It’s a

culture among students in higher education

institutions either government or private

institutions. 

It is dependent on

our own responsibility and our strength to

face it by our own style.

Nowadays, coupling among campus

Students has become a common phenomenon. Many guys in campus

have their own view about coupling issue.

Coupling is not a main issue that we need to focus strictly

because it is natural and we don’t have any

way to prevent or encourage this state of life. Many

students choose coupling because

they have their own perspectives for having

special partners.

There are many factors that make someone

choose to have a partner. Actually, having

a partner is a natural case. Nobody can

resist themselves from falling in love with

someone. Anyway, some of the students do not

really appreciate this kind of feeling.

They decide to couple

because they want to compete with their

friends or want to become famous among

students in colleges. From this perspective,

we can conclude that coupling can lead to

social problems among the students. Although

this situation is not really critical, we must

take caution. Coupling

can have  positive or negative impacts.

Some students feel that having a partner

can lead to morale during their

studies and social life in campus. They can also release tension during difficulties, share

some interests and so on as one has a comforter or a person to turn to. As we know, the

person who takes on the issue of coupling positively

end up having good relationships (not always).

Unfortunately, the biggest percentage of the students takes

coupling just for granted. This means even creating problems

to their partners just for them to part ways when they are bored

by the relationship.

In campus, many behaviors are observed.

Students have their own styles of showing

their own characters. With high number of students, many characters are depicted

either academically, socially or politically.

Diverse behaviors are present in such a population.

Such include games, dancing, modeling, studying, traveling, clubbing

etc. Every person getting into campus is considered a grown up and mature “upstairs”.

The behavior portrayed by each person depends on their perspective of doing things.

Its only in campus where all sort of behaviors are depicted.

The students are the same guys who make engineers, entrepreneurs, leaders, thieves etc.

This way of having all behaviors is expected in such institutions.

Making positive or negative trends are issues of one’s blame.

Since almost all students lie in the age bracket (18-25) great activities are expected as this is the period determining one’s life after campus. One is rapidly growing in all perspectives (mentally, socially, economically, spiritually etc.). Hence, issues such as relationships, gaming and enjoying life are very common. Various factors contribute to student’s behaviors; friends, financial status, community and also the notion about a course that one is pursuing just to name a few.

Coupling is the most common phenomena in campus. Its normal to see students walking in pairs around the campus compound. Everyone has the feeling of loving or being loved. Since its natural, students cannot be blamed for this. Coupling can be good to advance your knowledge and experience of being in love. However, if the purpose of coupling is not well defined, it can mislead and end up in a dark corner of your studies(life is all about enjoying yourself). Other negative impacts of coupling include; being in financial constraints as a result of waste of resources, quire behaviors e.g. theft to get money to sustain your status in campus etc. The fact is, there are a thousand of campus relationships present in our campus but only a few continue even after campus.

What is your view about campus relationships?